If You Give a Gift to Get a Certain Reaction, the Gift Is Actually for YOU

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“Hey Page,” he says, “can you take a look at something for me?”

“Sure,” I reply.

And then 8 screenshots shoot into our chat lightning quick.

“What do you think?” he says.

“Reading, sec,” I reply.

“Okay,” he says. “Take your time.”

It takes me a second to orient to the chat bubbles because it’s not a program I use.  » Read more

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“I’m a Polyamorous Person Who Keeps Compromising by Having Monogamous Relationships & Feeling Bad. Why?”

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I’m a polyamorous person that keeps ending up in relationships with monogamous people. Then I compromise and feel wrong, unseen, miserable, and wish to stay polyamorous solo. Then it happens again. Why?


This is an interesting question, letter writer. To be perfectly honest, you didn’t give me a lot to work with here.  » Read more

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