Consensus as Illusory Evidence
Lately, I’ve been rolling around the concepts of dishonesty vs. an incomplete (or even merely representational) model – or similarly, inaccuracy as distinguished from explicit… Read More »Consensus as Illusory Evidence
Search Results for: communication
Audience
As my life goes on, I find myself growing more and more disillusioned about the plausibility of nuanced communication being both well delivered and well… Read More »Audience
“Both suffering for love and being addicted to a relationship are romanticized by our culture… Very few models exist of people relating as peers in… Read More »
On Obscurantism
I was cruising through some old chat logs for a romantic trip down memory lane and came across myself explaining to Skyspook about my personal… Read More »On Obscurantism
How Many Counties Are There in the State of Denial?
My mom called me on the phone to chat a few days ago, and the first thing she asked me was if I’d bought anything… Read More »How Many Counties Are There in the State of Denial?
Desperation
July 9, 2010: There is a placefor the singlepeople – and ho are they? who am I I inventa person worthy of servitude – is… Read More »Desperation
When the Shit Hits the Fan
You can tell a lot about your play partner by how they react when accidents happen. I had been warned no less than 2 dozen… Read More »When the Shit Hits the Fan
Bad Poly: A Case Study
How does a person who is polyamorous in spirit end up not seeking other partners for a great length of time, essentially becoming monogamous in… Read More »Bad Poly: A Case Study
Sanctuary
The DSM-IV defines a mental disorder as “a clinically significant behavioral or psychological syndrome or pattern that occurs in an individual [which] is associated with… Read More »Sanctuary
Do I Think That Past Trauma Made Me Kinky?
Short answer: No. Long answer: People within the kink community who don’t have histories of childhood trauma and abuse are just as common as those… Read More »Do I Think That Past Trauma Made Me Kinky?
