No One Wants to Be the Bitter Ex… But Sometimes We All Are
Photo by liz west / CC BY A fifth reason came to me as to Why So Few Polyamorists Write in Great Detail (aside from… Read More »No One Wants to Be the Bitter Ex… But Sometimes We All Are
Photo by liz west / CC BY A fifth reason came to me as to Why So Few Polyamorists Write in Great Detail (aside from… Read More »No One Wants to Be the Bitter Ex… But Sometimes We All Are
Most people have heard of the expression “Not my circus, not my monkeys,” signalling that it’s not your problem, you don’t have to fix it.… Read More »Step Away From the Circus, Step Away From the Monkeys
Photo by kudomomo / CC BY It’s been 2 weeks since Skyspook and I first agreed that the time had come to reopen our relationship… Read More »Our Glorious Fortnight
Something I see a lot in my professional travels are people who want to be supportive to a partner who’s struggling but don’t want to… Read More »Enabling
I spent the weekend at Power eXchange Summit (PXS) in Columbus. PXS is a special event. More than anything, it is about talking, exploring, socializing.… Read More »Back in the vanilla world again – PXS 2013 #1
One of my best friends (activist, poet, essayist, musician, diversity scholar, and in general a lovely human being) wrote an EXCELLENT post about consent. I… Read More »Consent Culture is Hard, Yo.
This past Christmas, Skyspook gave me a Kindle Touch. Every year, his employer lets them choose a gift from the company from a list of… Read More »Happy Endings
Because you wrote me your own letter over a decade ago as part of Step 9, and the one I drafted so quickly in reply… Read More »A Letter to My Rapist
In February of 2010, I’m walking through the streets of Bangor late at night in 4-inch patent leather heels with a handsome man holding my… Read More »Goodbye, White Knight
March 2010 – Saint Patrick’s Day “You’ve been doing amazing,” S says. “You look incredible. You’ve changed so much.” We lock arms, cuddle. “Just… Read More »In the Dust