Stranger in a Strange Land

Sometimes I feel like I ran away to Ohio to join the sex circus.

There was a birthday dinner I went to this winter for a friend of mine. I met up with a bunch of people at this great sushi restaurant on the East Side. There was my friend, her boyfriend, and her husband (the 3 of them at the time mostly vanilla/a tad kink curious but poly),  » Read more

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When the Shit Hits the Fan

You can tell a lot about your play partner by how they react when accidents happen.

I had been warned no less than 2 dozen times by various sources that even with a great partner taking as many precautions as we both found necessary, negotiating and planning carefully with clear, honest communication that a time would come when something would transpire that I was totally not okay with – whether it was through a surprising negative reaction that I didn’t see coming or through sheer bad luck.  » Read more

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The Obvious

I know I’ve been talking a lot about chores lately. I probably sound like a neat freak.

In truth, I was a very messy child, who grew into a slob. I then shacked up with and eventually married someone even messier than me. That man is Ex-Husband. He rode off into the sunset long ago.  » Read more

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Making the Bed

Skyspook: When I go into the bedroom at the end of the day to go to sleep, and see the bed made, it reminds me that you love me. It fills me with love.


Many years back, in a very different time and place in my life, I worked as a hotel maid.  » Read more

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Mission Statement

I am now embarking on a journey that I never thought I’d take.


I am beginning training to become Skyspook’s slave.


Our contract negotiations are still in the very preliminary phase, and the collar I wear is a training collar. We want to do this in the way that’s best for us,  » Read more

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I rode the wave for what seemed like forever the other night. We were working in concert, floating me at the cusp – it was years or maybe an instant, come or die, come or die, but please, please don’t stop.


When I first got on Lexapro, it was an incredible life changing moment.  » Read more

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Punch Line

“I’ve found out why people laugh. They laugh because it hurts so much . . . because it’s the only thing that’ll make it stop hurting.”

― Robert A. Heinlein


“I love the way you laugh when he’s beating you.” She said.

“Thank you,” I replied.  » Read more

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The Neighborhood Watch

There have been a lot of new people on my local kink scene lately – which is exciting and wonderful! It’s important for the health of any kink organization for new members to enter as new members will inevitably exit or take an extended hiatus, just like there’s a natural circulation to many clubs. I was chatting in the kitchen recently with my housemate J about some of the new faces,  » Read more

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