Yelling at Technology: Don’t Treat People-y Things Like Things

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Martin and Veaux’s Polyamorous Secondary Relationship Card has been making the rounds again lately.  A bunch of folks in my friends circle have been having good discussions about it. There’s a reason it resonates. People still struggle to clearly communicate their wants and needs in relationships and practice informed consent.

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Godzilla vs. Mothra: Taking the Long View of Growth

photo of godzilla and mothra fighting in the city. Words over it read "I pause a moment / is this what I really want? / And I answer... 'yes.'"
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Becoming Godzilla

“I’m gonna train this son-of-a-bitch lizard brain to not take it personally when I’m rejected. From anything. Into the fire over and over until I stop feeling the burn. I might end up as Godzilla, and I’m perfectly cool with that,” I resolve angrily.

Skyspook laughs.

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