1. A young person, usually in uniform, employed to run errands, open doors, etc., as in a hotel.
  2. One side of a sheet of paper as in a book, magazine, or newspaper.

noun:  in medieval times a youth acting as a knight’s attendant as the first stage in training for knighthood
noun:  a youthful attendant at official functions or ceremonies such as legislative functions and weddings
noun:  a boy who is employed to run errands

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Mmmm… Delicious, Delicious Whore Pills

Stop worrying about how much sex young women are having. Seriously.

When we judge young women predominantly based on their sexual activity or inactivity as virtuous or loose, responsible or irresponsible, ethical or unethical, we shift focus away from the rest of the values and behaviors we should be teaching them: Self-determination, self-compassion,  » Read more

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Stranger in a Strange Land

Sometimes I feel like I ran away to Ohio to join the sex circus.

There was a birthday dinner I went to this winter for a friend of mine. I met up with a bunch of people at this great sushi restaurant on the East Side. There was my friend, her boyfriend, and her husband (the 3 of them at the time mostly vanilla/a tad kink curious but poly),  » Read more

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When the Shit Hits the Fan

You can tell a lot about your play partner by how they react when accidents happen.

I had been warned no less than 2 dozen times by various sources that even with a great partner taking as many precautions as we both found necessary, negotiating and planning carefully with clear, honest communication that a time would come when something would transpire that I was totally not okay with – whether it was through a surprising negative reaction that I didn’t see coming or through sheer bad luck.  » Read more

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The Obvious

I know I’ve been talking a lot about chores lately. I probably sound like a neat freak.

In truth, I was a very messy child, who grew into a slob. I then shacked up with and eventually married someone even messier than me. That man is Ex-Husband. He rode off into the sunset long ago.  » Read more

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Making the Bed

Skyspook: When I go into the bedroom at the end of the day to go to sleep, and see the bed made, it reminds me that you love me. It fills me with love.


Many years back, in a very different time and place in my life, I worked as a hotel maid.  » Read more

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Mission Statement

I am now embarking on a journey that I never thought I’d take.


I am beginning training to become Skyspook’s slave.


Our contract negotiations are still in the very preliminary phase, and the collar I wear is a training collar. We want to do this in the way that’s best for us,  » Read more

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I rode the wave for what seemed like forever the other night. We were working in concert, floating me at the cusp – it was years or maybe an instant, come or die, come or die, but please, please don’t stop.


When I first got on Lexapro, it was an incredible life changing moment.  » Read more

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