Guest Blog Post
Confessions of a Hypogender, Graysexual, Demiro, Queer Secondary
Today’s article is an anonymous guest letter from a reader. Enjoy! * Dear Poly Land, Sharing with the air, because I’m sure there must be
December 26, 2018
Category: Sexual Orientation
Sex Positivity
Selfish Lovers Don’t Just Disappoint. They Can Also Distort Your View of Sexuality.
I remember the first time I slept with someone who actually cared about my pleasure. The way they moved their hands over my body, the
December 5, 2018
Bisexuality
In Order to Be Polyamorous, I Had to Get Over the Idea That It’d Make Me a Bad Bisexual
I Kept Having the Same Two Conversations, Over and Over Again Growing up bisexual, I’d end up in an unpleasant conversation every time I told
September 18, 2018
Bisexuality
Polyamory Helped Me Find a Community of Other Bisexual People
As I’ve written before, unlike a lot of other polyamorous educators, I wasn’t someone who always knew I was polyamorous. Indeed, I considered myself quite
July 25, 2018
Relationships
I Used to Think Loving Someone Meant Never Hurting Them
I’ve changed a lot over the years. I used to think that when you loved someone it meant that their fears took precedence over your
June 6, 2018
Bisexuality
What It Was Like Growing Up Bisexual & Being the First Girl In My Class to Develop
I remember standing in the movie theater staring at a game I couldn’t take my eyes off. It was there, wedged in between the spiral
May 31, 2018
Bisexuality
Sleeping with the Enemy: On Women Dating Women While Still Viewing Them as Competition
“Keep your top on,” she said. “Sure,” I said, dropping my arms to my sides and then quickly wrapping them around her waist. And as
March 6, 2018
Polyamory
But Isn’t Polyamory Bad for Children?
Every morning I said hello to my third roommate: Xena Warrior Princess. She was cardboard, all 6 feet of her, and well dressed for any
February 5, 2018
Bisexuality
The Worst Threesome I Ever Had
2000 The worst threesome I ever had ended before it even started. It caught me off guard how much I enjoyed kissing Derek. We’d spent
January 24, 2018
Polyamory
It’s a Different World for Bisexual Women
Nearly 20 years ago, I lived for several months with my friend’s drug dealer. He was 13 years older than me. I didn’t want to
January 22, 2018
