Communication
“But what if they test positive?”
“But aren’t you worried about diseases?” It’s a very frequent question asked of poly people – and a very natural one. I know it’s the
August 6, 2016
Category: Sex Positivity
Kink
The Possibility of Blowing Darth Vader
The more time passes and I float along the slipstream of my particular happily-ever-after, the more I am impressed with the fact that I was
September 28, 2015
One thing leads to another
I have a dear friend F who is working on their* master’s thesis at the moment. We met recently for lunch with another academic kinkster
May 1, 2014
Consent Culture is Hard, Yo.
One of my best friends (activist, poet, essayist, musician, diversity scholar, and in general a lovely human being) wrote an EXCELLENT post about consent. I
August 16, 2012
On Gender Supremacy
I keep running into one disturbing trend as I explore the Master/slave community and Skyspook and I experiment with the dynamic: Male supremacy. I know,
July 31, 2012
Baggage Claim
“I said love. Why does that almost always translate to something sexual for you?” It’s just an SMS on a 2-inch screen. It shouldn’t be
June 20, 2012
Unknown Devils
The last few years of our marriage, Ex-Husband used to say that people were taken with me only because they didn’t know me very well,
May 10, 2012
And They Say Romance Is Dead…
A custom warning label I made for Skyspook a while back using one of those online generator sites I found with StumbleUpon. I thought it
April 2, 2012
Wired Differently
If I try to be monogamous with a vanilla man with low libido ever again, someone please inform me of the error of my ways.
March 29, 2012
Mmmm… Delicious, Delicious Whore Pills
Stop worrying about how much sex young women are having. Seriously. When we judge young women predominantly based on their sexual activity or inactivity as
March 18, 2012
