Category: Self Improvement
We should be grateful for those moments when someone finally tells us the “obvious.” Whether it’s complimentary or not.
“I hate how much time I wasted,” she says. “I spent all those years not knowing any better.”
I often tell people simply, point blank, that I’m a planner. And it’s true, but it’s not that simple.
The reality is that little breakthroughs can frankly be huge… even if not everyone understands right away when you’re telling them about the breakthrough and how much it means to you.
Ah, the bucket list. You know… all the things that you would like to do before you die. Why do they call it that? I didn’t know at first but did some digging, and apparently it literally comes from the idea that it’s all the things you want to do before you “kick the bucket.” Yes, really. Wow. Okay.
My doormat friend has been working on assertiveness. Some of us are extremely proud of her and cheering her on as she pursues more healthy patterns in her interpersonal relationships. But other people who know her are really unhappy.
It’s weird these days. Sometimes I feel like a stranger to myself. In a few hours, I’m going to do something I promised I’d do. Do I feel like doing it? No, not at all.