Relationships
If You Want to Get Closer to People, Stop Giving Extra Credit Criticism
I’ve always been a person who dreams. And most of the time I remember them. Supposedly, science says this means I’m a restless sleeper, that
January 22, 2020
Category: Sapphic
Relationships
“Dear Mother, Please Send Rubles”
Picture it. Quebec City 1999. We’ve been to six bars in one night. And we’ve made the most of each. It’s the first time I’ve
April 22, 2019
Guest Blog Post
Queer “Tourism,” “Safe” Flirting & Straight Women at Strip Clubs: When Allies Endanger Queer People With Their Lack of Understanding
Today’s article is a guest post by LadyHeat. LadyHeat is a badass lesbian bitch who kicks in the teeth of marginalization. Her geeky interests are many
February 18, 2019
Relationships
It’s Important to Remember That Reassurance Is a Form of Persuasion
I got my start with courting women by comforting one who’d had her heart broken. The surroundings were far from ideal, not anyone’s idea of
February 14, 2019
Relationships
Princesses Are Good, Queens Are Evil
I know most people don’t talk about memes very much. Most people consider them trivial, barely worthy of fleeting attention. But I personally enjoy and
October 18, 2018
Sapphic
I Thought I’d Lost My Chance to Have a Fulfilling Relationship With a Woman, But I Was Wrong
Being a Young Girl Was All About Mixed Messages When I was a young girl, it often seemed like I was toeing a very thin
September 24, 2018
Relationships
“How Many People Would You Say You’ve Dated?”
We weren’t really dating, but I had gotten used to her. Gotten used to the sound of her voice. The feel of her body. Got
June 20, 2018
Relationships
I Used to Think Loving Someone Meant Never Hurting Them
I’ve changed a lot over the years. I used to think that when you loved someone it meant that their fears took precedence over your
June 6, 2018
