D/s
Enough
Photo by tuncaycoskun / CC BY It’s a funny thing, never feeling like you’re enough. “I know I’ll lose you eventually,” I told my husband
July 27, 2016
Category: Polyamory/Monogamy
Poly Issues
Unnaturally Poly
A lot of my favorite poly bloggers share a similar story: They came to polyamory naturally. Monogamy just wasn’t a thing that they did well
July 15, 2016
Life in the Jealous Closet
When I first dipped my toe into the polyamorous pool in 2009, it was to date our friend Megan with my husband Seth. Megan said
July 10, 2016
Bi, Female, and Sensitive
I’m a highly libidinous bisexual female. I’m also deep and sensitive. I detest small talk (going to hairdressers is a kind of banal hell unless
July 9, 2016
Narrow Path to Security
“Insecurity invents its own evidence and supports its own premises. No amount of someone else’s time and effort is enough to make an insecure person
July 7, 2016
Mental Health
What They Don’t Tell You About Dating an Abused Person, Part 2 — “You are right, and I hate that you’re right, but you are, and I don’t know what to do with that.”
“You are right, and I hate that you’re right, but you are, and I don’t know what to do with that.” I think or say
July 1, 2016
Misc
The Wine Pledge
In vino motherfucking veritas. Reopening my relationship with Skyspook has brought up a lot of emotions, many of them good, some of them bad, on
July 29, 2015
Layers
When Skyspook and I first started dating 3 years ago, he was seeing 2 other married women in addition to me, and I had a
May 2, 2014
Whiplash
I was over poking around at the Pragmatic Polyamory blog this morning and edited a saved partial draft of an essay I’d been working on,
April 15, 2014
Attachment Styles
I mentioned in my last blog post, “Patient, Forget Thyself,” that the last book I finished, Martin Seligman’s Authentic Happiness, had multiple take-aways. The one
November 28, 2012
