Why It’s Hard to Get Advice When You’re Looking for Validation
After a protracted period of soul searching and agonizing, I decided to share my feelings with him. I thought about how to phrase it. And
After a protracted period of soul searching and agonizing, I decided to share my feelings with him. I thought about how to phrase it. And
As I wrote in a recent post, I recently moved cross country and have discovered that in spite of my assumption that I’d rush out
The more you know about bias and how deeply it’s entrenched in our brains, the more it becomes truly difficult to trust other people. How
“I don’t know that we communicate well,” I say to him. “This is news to me,” he replies. “Really?” “Really,” he says. “I love talking
I can remember being a little girl and dreaming about what it would be like to have romantic relationships. I was that kind of little girl. I
“So,” he said to me, “What do you think?” “About what?” I replied. He frowned. “About the book I lent you.” “Lent” was a curious
Every so often, an unpleasant cycle repeats. Someone new hits my local kink and/or poly circles, someone that I’ll meet and instantly have a bad
“I really worry about you,” she said. “You’re so insecure. So in need of reassurance. So weak.” I blinked my eyes twice in slow motion,
We’re stopped at a Subway in Kentucky. On our way to Georgia, to a large conference called Frolicon, due to land later that evening. My
Hi Page! I’m a long time reader of your blog and I have a mostly positive question! About feeeeelings. And communication styles. I’ve currently got
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