You Don’t Know How You’re Going to Feel. And That’s Okay.

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As much as I strive to live in the moment, I’ve always been someone who rehearses things.

When I’m about to have an important conversation, I will often find myself imagining how it’s going to go. Sometimes this involves actually playing out the hypothetical talk. Acting out both sides clumsily like a person playing a board game against themselves.  » Read more

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What Is a Situationship?

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As anyone who has read this blog for any length of time is aware, I am a lover of new words. And as a relationship writer, there’s no shortage of new words coming into the public conversation about love, sex, and dating.

Today I present to you situationship, a word that keeps popping up in articles that I’ve been reading.  » Read more

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