
PQ 15.3 — What assumptions do I make about commitments in my relationships?
PQ 15.3 — What assumptions do I make about commitments in my relationships? * We’re often blind to our own assumptions, at least until someone
PQ 15.3 — What assumptions do I make about commitments in my relationships? * We’re often blind to our own assumptions, at least until someone
PQ 15.2 — When am I open to taking new partners? * I’ve recently become polysaturated, for the first time in an awfully long time.
PQ 15.1 –What are my existing commitments? How much time do they leave for new partners? * “How do you manage it all?” she
PQ 14.10 — Is this agreement serving the people involved, or are the people serving it? * He’s just gotten done telling me about his
PQ 14.9 — Has anyone been harmed by this agreement? * Godzilla rampages through the city, toppling buildings, pulling down high-voltage power lines. Electricity spits
PQ 14.8 — Has this agreement been successful in meeting the needs it was intended to meet? * In a previous life, I worked as
PQ 14.7 — Are the needs now the same as the needs when we agreed to this? * “I’ve never really understood permission,” he says.
PQ 14.6 — Can the agreement be renegotiated? * One of my favorite things to do in order to slow down, unwind, and gain some
PQ 14.5 — Is everyone affected by the agreement at the table negotiating it? * Ooooo… This one is a flashback: PQ 10.3 – Does everyone affected
PQ 14.4 — What will happen if someone breaks the agreement? Do we have a path for reestablishing trust? Consequences and Accountability “I guess I
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