Another Way of Looking at Slut Shaming: “Stop Working So Hard, They’ll Expect the Rest of Us to Do It, Too”
[Please note that I wrote a follow-up post to this one: For the record, I think slut shaming is bad.] I was raised in a
[Please note that I wrote a follow-up post to this one: For the record, I think slut shaming is bad.] I was raised in a
It’s happy hour at the bar with Skyspook’s coworkers. I’m his designated driver and feeling a bit out of place as a plus one. Most
“So I ran into someone you know while I was at the mall today,” my roommate Noah said. “Oh yeah?” I said. “Who?” He said
When Sweetness Is the Whole Problem “I feel bad about being so upset with her,” she says. “She hasn’t really done anything wrong herself.” I
I’m a very sex-positive person. And hypersexual, actually. And I definitely subscribe to the ideal that Easton and Hardy famously expressed in The Ethical Slut: “Sex
Today’s post is a guest blog post from Matthew Shadrake. Matt is a polyamorous switch and a big ole softie. In addition to being a
I learned at a very tender young age: Always trust sex advice from gay boys. So when Fluffy and Pep said, “You have to try
On those days when I’m struggling with my latest challenge as a poly person, I can sure count on monogamous people to remind me how
Photo by Glenn E. Wilson / CC BY If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies
Polyamory didn’t come naturally to me at all. Instead, it was a zeitgeist that descended upon my friends circle, and in the spirit of being
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