Writing
Why It’s So Tough to Write About Problems in Public
I’m talking with a friend who, like me, has been blogging off and on for years. Recently, she just had her first viral hit. Viral,
August 7, 2018
Category: Writing
PQ Series
PQ 22.5 — Have I ever spread bitterness in the community or set people against each other by taking sides or by not keeping confidences?
PQ 22.5 — Have I ever spread bitterness in the community or set people against each other by taking sides or by not keeping confidences?
July 15, 2018
Misc
A Disclaimer About Advice: “Your Mileage May Vary, You Do You”
Basically, all advice ever given has the hidden disclaimer “Your mileage may vary, you do you,” attached to it. Even if the writer doesn’t come
July 11, 2018
Writing
I Write Because It’s Harder to Interrupt Me
I’m sitting in the backseat listening to them talk. They’re having a lively conversation. It makes me think of a story, something from my own
July 6, 2018
Family of Origin
I Don’t Get Over Things by Forgetting Them. I Do It by Remembering & Making Sense of Them.
“I’m not sure why people keep saying my pieces are painful to read,” I say to Justin. “I mean, it’s usually a part of a
June 29, 2018
Relationships
I’ll Tell You Everything, But You’ll Never See Dirty Laundry
“I only share when I have no unmet needs that I’m trying to fill. I firmly believe that being vulnerable with a larger audience is
June 8, 2018
Polyamory
Polymathy Confuses People Just As Much As, If Not More Than, Polyamory
I’ve Been Poly My Whole Life — Polymathic I’m different than a lot of other polyamorous educators because I haven’t been polyamorous my whole life.
May 18, 2018
Writing
Why I Publish a New Post Every Day
When I was brand new to polyamory, I read everything I could possibly get my hands on. I gobbled up every guidebook I could find
April 24, 2018
Polyamory
About that Sad First Book
Life is not a PG feel-good movie. Real life often ends badly. Literature tries to document this reality, while showing us it is still possible
February 20, 2018
Kink
Fet Lag: The Time Between Objectification and Respect
I cross-post a fair number of Poly.Land articles to FetLife, which is basically Facebook for kinksters. When you post a new writing on FetLife, it
December 28, 2017
