Polyamory
Having a Higher “Credit Limit” Can Be Fantastic, Even If You Don’t Ever Max Out Your Card
She’s swung into town for a few days for a conference. I’m not sure exactly when I met her, only that it was a long
May 21, 2019
Category: Polyamory
Polyamory
Poly Pitfalls: Relationship Scope Creep
“You posted a meme a few weeks back,” he says. “One that made me laugh aloud and then hurt. Because it was so true.” “I
May 14, 2019
Polyamory
Looking Over My Shoulder for the Long Shadow of Cruella de Vil
“You know what my ultimate polyamorous nightmare would be?” I say to him. “What’s that?” he replies. “That you’d be dating this woman who you
May 6, 2019
Bisexuality
The Relief of Finally Being Visibly and Actively Biromantic
As I wrote in an earlier piece, while I didn’t practice polyamory until the last decade or so, I’ve been bisexual for as long as I
May 2, 2019
Polyamory
Agency and Autonomy (or Lack Thereof) in Partnering and Parenting
Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself. They come through you but not from you,
April 24, 2019
Polyamory
Lady Friends, Gentleman Callers, and Frequent Visitors: What To Call a Metamour When It’s Not a Capital-R Relationship
metamour (noun) – a partner’s other partner * “When are you meeting up with your lady friend?” I ask my partner Justin. Lady friend. I
April 23, 2019
Polyamory
It’s Not Easy to Balance Attachment and Autonomy
It’s a balance I’m yet to master, how to be attached just the right amount and in the just the right ways. I’m used to
April 15, 2019
Polyamory
Like Dolphins F*cking, a Different Kind of Long-Distance Relationship
“You know what my favorite thing about polyamory is?” she says. “What’s that?” I reply. “That there’s room to have relationships that don’t follow traditional
April 9, 2019
Advice Friend
Ask Page: Can a Solo Poly Person Be a Nesting Partner?
Hi Page, Can a solo poly person be a nesting partner? * Thanks for the question! Before I dive deeply into it, let’s first explore
April 5, 2019
Polyamory
Dealing With Difficult Metamours
Let’s say your partner is seeing someone new, the reader wrote. And you don’t really like them. What do you do? I nodded when I
April 4, 2019
