Polyamory
When Polyamory Doesn’t Revolve Around Men
“So what are you working on for your next book?” the man at the polyamory meetup asked me, after his friend introduced us and he
August 28, 2020
Category: Polyamory
Polyamory
Welcome to Psychic City
I have a big announcement to make. My new book is finally out. It’s called Psychic City, and it’s a slipstream murder mystery that features an
August 24, 2020
Polyamory
What Are We Gonna Do Without Each Other?
“This is a weird and difficult time to be polyamorous,” he says. And I know what he means. I’m not sure what to do with it
March 24, 2020
Polyamory
When Relationships Are Simultaneous, It’s Harder to Dismiss Your Concerns About Them
I recently posted an essay called “A Bad Partner Fit Can Make You Feel Like You’re Worthless.” In it, I contrast two relationships I’ve been
February 20, 2020
Polyamory
Self-Partnering Sounds an Awful Lot Like Solo Polyamory
I’ve been reading more and more about a new relationship term lately: Self-partnering. It had a big pop culture moment last month when Emma Watson
December 31, 2019
BDSM
The “Should Have Stayed a Play Partner” Effect
Have you ever met someone who is fantastic at first? There’s something fun and shiny about them. Maybe they’re things that you’re missing in the
November 6, 2019
Polyamory
The Stigma Against Struggling With a Metamour & Why It’s Important to Work Against It
“I love your new book,” she said. “Thanks,” I replied. “I don’t usually like what I write, but I’m proud of that one. I’m happy
October 22, 2019
Polyamory
When You Ask Someone to Question One Thing, You May Be Asking Them to Question Everything
Upon hearing that I’ve written three books about polyamory and maintain a popular daily blog that heavily (although not exclusively) focuses on consensual non-monogamy, most
October 16, 2019
Polyamory
The Very Presence of a Community and Other Voices Can Be Reassuring, Regardless of What They’re Even Saying
It’s been interesting, the past decade. Polyamory went from being a relatively obscure term, something that was only discussed in low-tech ancient discussion groups that
October 15, 2019
Polyamory
The Quest for Non-Monogamy-Friendly Song Lyrics
Hi Page, Any recommendations for songs with polyamory-friendly lyrics? * Oh man, oh man, have I ever been there. Listening to a romantic song and
October 11, 2019
