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Misc

March of the Ents

Photo by Antoine Bertier / CC BY I was with my ex-husband Seth for 10 years, all told. The first 8 years we were monogamous,

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Misc

Heartbreaker

2011: Michelle is waiting for me at the door as Skyspook pulls the car back out into the street to go to work. She rolls

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Poly Issues

Our Glorious Fortnight

Photo by kudomomo / CC BY It’s been 2 weeks since Skyspook and I first agreed that the time had come to reopen our relationship

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"I'm not Needy, I'm Wanty" written in fancy script
Poly Issues

Needy

One of the things that’s very common in poly circles is the idea that multiple relationships allow you to meet different needs that are unreasonable

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Layers

When Skyspook and I first started dating 3 years ago, he was seeing 2 other married women in addition to me, and I had a

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Whiplash

I was over poking around at the Pragmatic Polyamory blog this morning and edited a saved partial draft of an essay I’d been working on,

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Calling

In the year leading up to this past fall, I was frustrated and beaten down by my job, by the way the transcription industry was

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Attachment Styles

I mentioned in my last blog post, “Patient, Forget Thyself,” that the last book I finished, Martin Seligman’s Authentic Happiness, had multiple take-aways. The one

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