Poly Issues
Unnaturally Poly
A lot of my favorite poly bloggers share a similar story: They came to polyamory naturally. Monogamy just wasn’t a thing that they did well
July 15, 2016
Category: Poly Issues
Mental Health
Rip off the Band-Aid
Photo by nathal / CC BY I’m often asked by people newer to poly – how do I make sure I’m never jealous or uncomfortable?
July 14, 2016
Poly Issues
Sexile/Pop-Tarts
It’s strange to admit this, but making plans to hang with a hot friend of mine, I realized that when it comes to partner selection
July 13, 2016
What the Cuck
He is out on a date with her. I’ve had a glass of wine, done some writing. We’ve done this dance before. He’s doing his
July 12, 2016
Life in the Jealous Closet
When I first dipped my toe into the polyamorous pool in 2009, it was to date our friend Megan with my husband Seth. Megan said
July 10, 2016
Bi, Female, and Sensitive
I’m a highly libidinous bisexual female. I’m also deep and sensitive. I detest small talk (going to hairdressers is a kind of banal hell unless
July 9, 2016
Narrow Path to Security
“Insecurity invents its own evidence and supports its own premises. No amount of someone else’s time and effort is enough to make an insecure person
July 7, 2016
Mental Health
Better Door Than a Window
Lately, I’ve been reading Franklin Veaux’s More Than Two, which along with The Ethical Slut is about the best reading for an overview of polyamory
July 6, 2016
Mental Health
What They Don’t Tell You About Dating an Abused Person, Part 2 — “You are right, and I hate that you’re right, but you are, and I don’t know what to do with that.”
“You are right, and I hate that you’re right, but you are, and I don’t know what to do with that.” I think or say
July 1, 2016
Poly Issues
Rules Schmules
I have been a polyamorist for the past 7 years. Over this period of time, the number of my relationships and who they were with
June 29, 2016
