
When Your Stress Response Is to Do Even More
“Part of me wonders if I’ll always be doing this — overloading myself until I can’t cope and then paring back and getting stressed again and loading myself back up.”
“Part of me wonders if I’ll always be doing this — overloading myself until I can’t cope and then paring back and getting stressed again and loading myself back up.”
For anyone who struggles with it, it is *really* hard to stop feeling responsible for other people’s bad moods.
Shouldn’t there be a point where it’s enough to live a good life, even if you haven’t squeezed every last drop out of it that you can?
The new normal will still probably be kinda weird for a while. Everything won’t be perfect. But that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your life in the weird “new normal.”
It’s been hard work learning to take care of myself (and others) without turning into a vain jerk. It’s a trickier balance than most admit. That narrow place where you’re egoistic but not egotistic is prime real estate.
All I want to say is this: I know you don’t think you’re all that great — but that’s probably a good sign.
I can’t help myself. I am worrying up until it happens. And the worst part of it is that if it never happens, this means that I’m worrying forever. I’m training for a game I’ll never actually have to play. And it isn’t even fun.
Being terrified but powerless can make you feel like you have nothing to lose. So why not tackle all the scary things?
It’s a very small moment of emotional connection, but given how tired and stressed everyone is, it means a lot to me.
My birthday is coming up again soon in just a few weeks. And I gotta say… it’s incredibly strange. This will be my second birthday
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