Simply Holding Up a Mirror: An Interview with Kevin Patterson of Poly Role Models

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Relationships are custom jobs — in general, and especially so when it comes to polyamory. When you step away from the notion that there’s only one “right” way to do relationships, there’s a dizzying range of possibilities.

And Poly Role Models does a great job mapping out that territory, one interview,  » Read more

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Mapping Territory Off the Escalator: An Interview with Amy Gahran

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I’ve long been a fan of Amy Gahran’s work. Under her pen name Aggie Sez, Gahran founded the blog solopoly.net, where she has been writing for many years about the unique challenges faced by those who tackle “life, relationships, and dating as a free agent.”

One post in particular, “Riding the Relationship Escalator,  » Read more

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Stigma, Funding, and Getting Off the Fringe: An Interview with Dr. Terri Conley

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If you’re an ethically nonmonogamous person and haven’t heard of Terri Conley, PhD, you’re missing out. Dr. Conley is “a social psychologist, a feminist, and a sex researcher, but not necessarily in that order.”

And Conley has arguably done more than any other person for establishing a sound scientific basis that polyamory and other forms of consensual nonmonogamy are a viable way to conduct relationships.  » Read more

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