
Polyamory and Power Exchange: Negotiating From the Bottom
Negotiating boundaries and setting expectations are both crucial in polyamory. Being polyamorous involves moving away from The Standard Romantic Relationship Script, in which society largely
Negotiating boundaries and setting expectations are both crucial in polyamory. Being polyamorous involves moving away from The Standard Romantic Relationship Script, in which society largely
“Awww,” Skyspook said. “You loooove it.” “Sure, I love it… in my hate place.” * Skyspook often describes his own process of learning how to
The brief moment between the swing and the sting of the dressage whip spans eons. Sometimes he’s a bastard and swings it so I’ll hear
On the rare occasions that I happen to talk to vanilla people about BDSM, it’s always quite eye opening. One thing I hear a lot
Photo by tuncaycoskun / CC BY It’s a funny thing, never feeling like you’re enough. “I know I’ll lose you eventually,” I told my husband
“I really wish people would be more open about their kinks,” he said. “I think kinks should be considered normal and not so taboo.” Except,
I appear confident, but under the surface I’m afraid. Disappointment is a persistent low-grade stinging in my chest, churning slowly, like a fist clenching in
“You really don’t give yourself enough credit,” Skyspook said. “Well, what’s been the one thread connecting my whole life together? Writing.” “You write wonderfully,” Skyspook
12/23/13 Nothing feels better than letting go, and when I say letting go, I mean completely letting go, letting responsibility bleed from you as effortlessly
Last night was the first uncomfortably warm night of the year. We shut the cats out of the bedroom so we could open the window
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