BDSM
I Learned a Lot About Reconnecting in Polyamory from BDSM Aftercare
Having great reconnections after an other-date was something that took me to a whole different level re: polyamory. It made everything a lot more fun.
August 6, 2021
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BDSM
Are Cat Lovers Masochists?
I never know quite where you stand, and that’s why I’m so into you. Your attention and affection aren’t readily available. Instead, they’re highly conditional.
February 4, 2020
BDSM
Exploring the Kink Scene Was Healthy for Me — and Boy, Did I Ever Resent That
Over a decade ago, I plunged onto the kink scene. Once I make up my mind to pursue something, I let go exuberantly, some might
November 28, 2019
BDSM
When You Call Someone a “Play Partner,” What Does That Mean?
I can remember the first time I ever heard the term “play partner.” I had just started seeing a new girlfriend, a doctor with a
November 11, 2019
BDSM
The “Should Have Stayed a Play Partner” Effect
Have you ever met someone who is fantastic at first? There’s something fun and shiny about them. Maybe they’re things that you’re missing in the
November 6, 2019
BDSM
Kinksters Are Everywhere
It’s a funny thing, being a kinkster. Because the kink scene brings people together who might otherwise never meet. I know people from every walk
July 26, 2019
Advice Friend
What’s the Difference Between Masochism and Self-Harm?
Hi Page, I’ve been exploring my more kinky side and I would definitely say I’m a masochist. However, I’ve recently been wondering if I’ve been
March 25, 2019
BDSM
My Friends on the Kink Scene Brought Me Back to Life
2000 “It’s not the drugs,” Kurt said. “It’s the people you meet because of the drugs.” He was a heavy user and had been for
December 3, 2018
Advice Friend
“I’m in Love With My Domme, But She Doesn’t Love Me Back. What Should I Do?”
Hi Page, I’ve been struggling with something for a while now and need advice and support from someone who might understand. Here’s the situation: I’m
November 29, 2018
BDSM
Could Procrastination Sometimes Be a Form of Masochism?
It turns out procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is often regarded to be. It’s a neurotic
October 23, 2018
