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What Is Proto-Abuse?
Hi Page, Just read one of your Twitter posts where you reference proto-abuse. It’s ringing some kind of flag or bell or what have you
January 18, 2021
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Cupiosexual: When You’re Asexual, But You Still Want a Sexual Relationship
Hello Page, I’ve been really enjoying your series of posts on underrepresented identities (asexual, aromantic, demisexual, semi-demi, etc.). It’s been really interesting and eye opening for
January 13, 2021
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“How Does One Become Part of the Polyamorous Community?”
Hi Page, I love your blog. You have a really fascinating way of framing topics that never would have occurred to me to even think
January 12, 2021
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Aromantic & Polyamorous? Yes, It DOES Happen!
Hi Page, I really appreciated your article “There *Are* Asexual Polyamorous People, You Know.” It made perfect sense to me because being asexual and being
January 2, 2021
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“I’m a Polyamorous Person Who Keeps Compromising by Having Monogamous Relationships & Feeling Bad. Why?”
I’m a polyamorous person that keeps ending up in relationships with monogamous people. Then I compromise and feel wrong, unseen, miserable, and wish to stay
December 28, 2020
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When Dealing with Other People, It’s Important to Account for the Possibility That They’re Different Than You Are
A reader wrote in with the following suggestion: How about an article about how to deal with it if your metamour does presents but you
December 25, 2020
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“Can People Have Good Friendships With Exes? Am I Just Tormenting Myself By Trying?”
Hi Page, My wife and I have been together for many years. We opened our relationship years ago, but until recently it had been primarily
December 8, 2020
Advice Friend
What Helped Me Recover From Dependent Personality Disorder
HI Page, Your article today about perspecticide was a total game changer. I had no idea what dependent personality disorder was and suddenly all of
November 27, 2020
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How to Set Boundaries Without Hurting People
Have you written anything about how to set boundaries without hurting people? I struggle with worrying that I’m going to hurt people when I set
November 2, 2020
Advice Friend
How to Deal With It When One Partner Wants to Have Deep Conversations Before Bed & the Other Really Doesn’t
Hi Page, I really liked your article “I Wish I Didn’t Feel Like Having Deep Conversations Right Before Bed.” It was relevant to me because
September 18, 2020
