Rush Limbaugh
Rush Limbaugh’s comments are offensive to those of us who have worked hard to become the whores we are. He dishes out the label too
Rush Limbaugh’s comments are offensive to those of us who have worked hard to become the whores we are. He dishes out the label too
“I don’t get it,” she said. “Why do all that? Sex, just good plain normal sex is wonderful. Why would anyone need to do all
I was in a relationship for many years where whenever I asked for any assistance, albeit with finances, chores, or emotional support, I was told
There was a story a friend of mine used to tell. When he was in school, his teacher had called the class to attention and
J: Pageling, I have something for you. Me: (through the door) I’m naked. J: It’s fine. I’m naked, too. Me: Okay. (opens door) I love
So I’ve had a relatively inactive diet and cooking blog for a while that I’ve started using a lot more recently to track some of
How does a person who is polyamorous in spirit end up not seeking other partners for a great length of time, essentially becoming monogamous in
Me: Sometimes I feel like I’m way out on a branch, and I feel the wind blow, and at any moment the branch could break,
The DSM-IV defines a mental disorder as “a clinically significant behavioral or psychological syndrome or pattern that occurs in an individual [which] is associated with
I lost my belief in so many beautiful traditions long ago. I raised myself on movies of the week and Hallmark moments. As my
Gaslighting: A common form of brainwashing in which an abuser tries to falsely convince the victim that the victim is defective, for any purpose whatsoever,
You know it’s going to be an interesting meeting when the first item on the agenda is “Please fist me.” Ok, I’ll rewind. It started
Before my explorations in kink with Skyspook, there was another man, Ex-Boyfriend in Cleveland. I met Ex-Boyfriend through a girl I was seeing as he
These days I’m polyamorous in spirit, monogamous in practice. It feels disingenuous to claim that I am one or the other completely. Even though my
“A lot of people run a race to see who is fastest. I run to see who has the most guts, who can punish himself
Short answer: No. Long answer: People within the kink community who don’t have histories of childhood trauma and abuse are just as common as those
There was a girl I used to date during my open marriage. One day when we were eating sushi at one of my favorite restaurants,
Stop lying your ass off in dating profiles and new relationships. Look, I get it. When you’re trying to meet potential partners or develop a
Today’s squick is tomorrow’s kink. Inevitably, I’ll find myself in the same situation. We’ll be at a party discussing sex, a common occurrence as the
A special thanks Dan and dawn over at Erotic Awakening for mentioning my blog and the post “Slave Heart” on their podcast here. Apparently, I
Okay, let’s start off by saying that however agreeable I seem, I am NOT someone who likes teamwork. Here’s an excerpt from a blog I
Even though I’ve recently set up this public blog presence of my charmed life and kinky times, I’ve been posting introspection and navel-gazing on predominantly
The compound acronym “BDSM” breaks down into B&D, D&S, S&M or bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. So really it’s BDDSSM –
I never loved another person the way I loved myself. Mae West There’s something absolutely terrifying about radical independence. It’s not a message our culture
The brief moment between the swing and the sting of the dressage whip seems to span eons. Sometimes he’s a bastard and swings it so
“Thank you so much,” she says, wrapping me in a hug before she steps into the cold. “We had a great time. Page, you’re a
It’s a valid question. Once upon a time I was in a vanilla (i.e., non-kinky) monogamous heterosexual relationship. We met through mutual friends, dated for
These days I’m polyamorous in spirit, monogamous in practice. It feels disingenuous to claim that I am one or the other completely. Even though my
He sees me outlining the cartoonish bruises on my breast. I hear his laugh and became totally aware of what I’m doing. I must be
That first bite of fried egg hit my tongue and sent my whole mouth into paroxysms of joy. Just a kiss of butter, the white
Photo by em-volleyball-1-6 /CC BY Compersion is so fantastic and ever-present for me (even when I’m sexually exclusive) that it gets to go first, and
I’ve been wanting to write this essay for a while, stopped and started. Floundered. Because while I feel strongly about the following issue, I find
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