Rush Limbaugh
March 5, 2012
Rush Limbaugh’s comments are offensive to those of us who have worked hard to become the whores we are. He dishes out the label too
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Gourmet Sex
March 5, 2012
“I don’t get it,” she said. “Why do all that? Sex, just good plain normal sex is wonderful. Why would anyone need to do all
Abuse
March 4, 2012
I was in a relationship for many years where whenever I asked for any assistance, albeit with finances, chores, or emotional support, I was told
Rotten Denmark
March 3, 2012
There was a story a friend of mine used to tell. When he was in school, his teacher had called the class to attention and
this sub’s life
March 2, 2012
J: Pageling, I have something for you. Me: (through the door) I’m naked. J: It’s fine. I’m naked, too. Me: Okay. (opens door) I love
my diet/cooking blog
March 1, 2012
So I’ve had a relatively inactive diet and cooking blog for a while that I’ve started using a lot more recently to track some of
Bad Poly: A Case Study
March 1, 2012
How does a person who is polyamorous in spirit end up not seeking other partners for a great length of time, essentially becoming monogamous in
The Move
February 29, 2012
Me: Sometimes I feel like I’m way out on a branch, and I feel the wind blow, and at any moment the branch could break,
Sanctuary
February 28, 2012
The DSM-IV defines a mental disorder as “a clinically significant behavioral or psychological syndrome or pattern that occurs in an individual [which] is associated with
Silver and Gold
February 27, 2012
I lost my belief in so many beautiful traditions long ago. I raised myself on movies of the week and Hallmark moments. As my
Gaslighting
February 26, 2012
Gaslighting: A common form of brainwashing in which an abuser tries to falsely convince the victim that the victim is defective, for any purpose whatsoever,
Choosing
February 25, 2012
You know it’s going to be an interesting meeting when the first item on the agenda is “Please fist me.” Ok, I’ll rewind. It started
Regrowing My Claws
February 24, 2012
Before my explorations in kink with Skyspook, there was another man, Ex-Boyfriend in Cleveland. I met Ex-Boyfriend through a girl I was seeing as he
Poly Debriefing #3: Don’t Fight the Moonlight, an NRE Survival Guide
February 23, 2012
These days I’m polyamorous in spirit, monogamous in practice. It feels disingenuous to claim that I am one or the other completely. Even though my
Portion Control
February 22, 2012
“A lot of people run a race to see who is fastest. I run to see who has the most guts, who can punish himself
Do I Think That Past Trauma Made Me Kinky?
February 21, 2012
Short answer: No. Long answer: People within the kink community who don’t have histories of childhood trauma and abuse are just as common as those
One Size Fits All
February 20, 2012
There was a girl I used to date during my open marriage. One day when we were eating sushi at one of my favorite restaurants,
If You Don’t Like Eating Pussy, Just Say So: A Pubic Service Announcement
February 19, 2012
Stop lying your ass off in dating profiles and new relationships. Look, I get it. When you’re trying to meet potential partners or develop a
Your Kink is Okay
February 18, 2012
Today’s squick is tomorrow’s kink. Inevitably, I’ll find myself in the same situation. We’ll be at a party discussing sex, a common occurrence as the
Yay!
February 17, 2012
A special thanks Dan and dawn over at Erotic Awakening for mentioning my blog and the post “Slave Heart” on their podcast here. Apparently, I
Accountability
February 17, 2012
Okay, let’s start off by saying that however agreeable I seem, I am NOT someone who likes teamwork. Here’s an excerpt from a blog I
Why Write?
February 16, 2012
Even though I’ve recently set up this public blog presence of my charmed life and kinky times, I’ve been posting introspection and navel-gazing on predominantly
Discipline
February 15, 2012
The compound acronym “BDSM” breaks down into B&D, D&S, S&M or bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. So really it’s BDDSSM –
A Valentine to Myself
February 14, 2012
I never loved another person the way I loved myself. Mae West There’s something absolutely terrifying about radical independence. It’s not a message our culture
Conversion
February 13, 2012
The brief moment between the swing and the sting of the dressage whip seems to span eons. Sometimes he’s a bastard and swings it so
What is a Party Without Guests?
February 12, 2012
“Thank you so much,” she says, wrapping me in a hug before she steps into the cold. “We had a great time. Page, you’re a
How Did I Get Into All This Kinky Shit Anyway?
February 11, 2012
It’s a valid question. Once upon a time I was in a vanilla (i.e., non-kinky) monogamous heterosexual relationship. We met through mutual friends, dated for
Poly Debriefing #2: More
February 10, 2012
These days I’m polyamorous in spirit, monogamous in practice. It feels disingenuous to claim that I am one or the other completely. Even though my
sub frenzy
February 9, 2012
He sees me outlining the cartoonish bruises on my breast. I hear his laugh and became totally aware of what I’m doing. I must be
Solid
January 15, 2012
That first bite of fried egg hit my tongue and sent my whole mouth into paroxysms of joy. Just a kiss of butter, the white
Poly Debriefing #1: Compersion
January 9, 2012
Photo by em-volleyball-1-6 /CC BY Compersion is so fantastic and ever-present for me (even when I’m sexually exclusive) that it gets to go first, and
Welcome to Fight Club
January 6, 2012
I’ve been wanting to write this essay for a while, stopped and started. Floundered. Because while I feel strongly about the following issue, I find
