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Sincerity

I was at a backyard bonfire party many years ago when I saw a friend vigorously fellate a hot dog. I know. No big deal,

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Mono-Flexible

This is the term Skyspook came up with to describe myself with regards with monogamy/non-monogamy. I think my natural orientation is for monogamy, the simplicity.

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Weighty Matters

Dieting has been very much a part of my psyche since I first started going to Weight Watchers meetings at 3 years old. I found

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Yes, I’m the Crazy Ex

I have a bounty of exes, ex-girlfriends, ex-boyfriends, now even an ex-husband. In short, I’m a lot of people’s crazy ex. I love so hard

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I wrote a story

Yesterday I did something I haven’t done in a long time. I wrote a short story. Fiction and I haven’t been on speaking terms in

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Acceptance is Scary

“Thank you,” I gasp, collapsing beside him on the bed. He raises an eyebrow, even though his face is flooded with afterglow. “Thank you.” It

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Wish List

Our psychological and emotional positions in the sadomasochist realm firmly established, I’d broached the topic of D/s. I wanted to know where we were going.

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See You Later, Space Cowboy

Cowboy. Somebody who figures that these alternative relationships are unstable, and consciously or unconsciously tries to pull one of the partners off into a monogamous

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Us

I’ve loved you a season now. Somehow your eyes are growing softer and brighter with time and the colors around us more vibrant. This new

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Yes

Last night, you told me that prosody was my strong suit and drew a heart in black ink on my shoulder with your good pen

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sexual compass

Sexual Orientation I am attracted to people in general. I don’t have a preference when it comes to gonads. There is also a wide range

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Humiliation

9 years old Though I am running a fever, I go to a dear friend’s sleepover at her insistence. The conversation turns to my developing

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Poly With a Penis

Polyamory. It’s a woman’s world. Don’t look at me like that. 😛 I’m not hating on men! I have character witnesses that will testify that

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Body Acceptance

It’s been a crazy couple of years socially speaking. A year and a half ago, my husband and I opened our marriage. A few months

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“Useful”

Why do I crave what many others would consider abuse? Is it for the pain? The freedom from my own identity that comes from reflexive

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Out

I came out about my sexual orientation to my mother today. It started when we were talking about one of my friends from college. “You

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Losing Control

Having safe sex with women can be pretty tricky. Oh, the condom! Why must you be so inapplicable to my efforts to sex up the

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afternoon nap

I took a short nap this afternoon during a break from work and had a dream that I was playing the piano, a piece in

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The Messiah Complex

1. Just about everyone else in my family is Catholic (except for a few crazy uncles we were never allowed to associate with except for

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I’m the hyper, nauseatingly precocious kid in all the snaps, wearing an evening gown at the breakfast table, correcting my mother’s grammar in a Grover

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