Discipline
The compound acronym “BDSM” breaks down into B&D, D&S, S&M or bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. So really it’s BDDSSM –… Read More »Discipline
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A Valentine to Myself
I never loved another person the way I loved myself. Mae West There’s something absolutely terrifying about radical independence. It’s not a message our culture… Read More »A Valentine to Myself
Conversion
The brief moment between the swing and the sting of the dressage whip seems to span eons. Sometimes he’s a bastard and swings it so… Read More »Conversion
What is a Party Without Guests?
“Thank you so much,” she says, wrapping me in a hug before she steps into the cold. “We had a great time. Page, you’re a… Read More »What is a Party Without Guests?
How Did I Get Into All This Kinky Shit Anyway?
It’s a valid question. Once upon a time I was in a vanilla (i.e., non-kinky) monogamous heterosexual relationship. We met through mutual friends, dated for… Read More »How Did I Get Into All This Kinky Shit Anyway?
Poly Debriefing #2: More
These days I’m polyamorous in spirit, monogamous in practice. It feels disingenuous to claim that I am one or the other completely. Even though my… Read More »Poly Debriefing #2: More
sub frenzy
He sees me outlining the cartoonish bruises on my breast. I hear his laugh and became totally aware of what I’m doing. I must be… Read More »sub frenzy
Solid
That first bite of fried egg hit my tongue and sent my whole mouth into paroxysms of joy. Just a kiss of butter, the white… Read More »Solid
Poly Debriefing #1: Compersion
Photo by em-volleyball-1-6 /CC BY Compersion is so fantastic and ever-present for me (even when I’m sexually exclusive) that it gets to go first, and… Read More »Poly Debriefing #1: Compersion
Welcome to Fight Club
I’ve been wanting to write this essay for a while, stopped and started. Floundered. Because while I feel strongly about the following issue, I find… Read More »Welcome to Fight Club
