The Pain Isn’t Going Away, So I Might As Well Put It to Work
The reality is that burnout can take an awfully long time to recover from.
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Gracious Polyamorous Relationship Systems Are the Ones That Thrive
I’ve seen amazing relationship systems, where people were happy, things were harmonious — and everyone in them suffered mostly from a kind of “pinch me” syndrome.
We’ve Been With So Many People Over the Years, Just Being Us
I get a little dizzy thinking about it sometimes. And proud of us. For the flexibility, for being kind during those dances even if we sometimes stepped on each other’s toes.
You Gave Me the World & Said It Was No Big Deal
You have no idea how wonderful you are. How much you help. You gave me the world and said it was no big deal.
Long-Term Happiness in Polyamory Is About Choosing the Hard Thing That Helps You Grow
Being successful at polyamory really is about choosing the hard thing that helps you grow.
I Wish I Could Explain What “Chemistry” Even Is
I’ll keep telling people I care about them, even if it sometimes results in a broken heart.
What’s “Obvious” About Us to Other People Is Often Hidden
We should be grateful for those moments when someone finally tells us the “obvious.” Whether it’s complimentary or not.
I Wish I Were One of Those People With Neat Handwriting
I was a strange little goblin growing up, and the adults were pessimistic about me from early on.
I Am Grateful for All the Past Heartbreaks That Taught Me to Appreciate This
I’m grateful for all the past heartbreaks that taught me to appreciate this. And all my partner’s heartbreaks that taught them to appreciate me.
Isolation Made Me Forget Who I Was
Isolation made me forget who I was, and it made me think people hate me.
